Top 5 Valentine's Day Do's

1. Make sure you start the day together! You may be on different schedules, but don't let that stop you from telling your special somebody that you love them. Maybe do a morning prayer or scripture reading together. Here's a great husband & wife bible study written by Les & Leslie Parrott, The One Year Love Talk Devotional for Couples

2. Don't break the bank! I know some of you may feel the invisible pressure to out do everyone on social media with some huge to-do. News flash!You can show her you care without emptying your account. Click Here for a few ideas

3. K.I.S.S Rule (Keep It Serving,Silly)! There are everyday things where you could rise to occasion by helping take the load off of your spouse. Nothing tells your wife you love her more than doing the laundry, rubbing her feet, making her dinner, or putting the kids to bed while she relaxes. On the flip side wives, I've never seen a husband turn down a back rub, a twelve pack of his favorite brew, or a nice juicy steak.

4. Kid Free Zone! Line up a sitter for the evening so you can get some quality one on one time together. Set some short and long term goals that meet both of your desires and just talk about how far you've come together. Click Here to find a sitter.

5. UNPLUG! Nothing says I Love You more than your spouse knowing that they are the only focus of the evening. Put the phones away, turn the TV off, and just be present in the moment.

Finally the one rule that isn't on the list but should always be practiced, Love your spouse everyday not just on Valentine's Day.

1Coninthians 13:4-8

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.

It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.

Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.

It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.